July 13th 2009
A colleague of mine at The National Campaign was fuming.
“If there’s one thing every high school kid will tell you,” he said, “it’s that 50 percent of marriages fail. It’s a lie.”
Well, it’s not exactly a lie, if you look at marriage data from years ago, or combine all education and income groups. But it’s also not true if you take a closer look at recent marriages.
Saying it over and over – as parents, politicians and pundits do – is akin to a college professor telling her class that half of them are going to fail her course, or a boss reminding recent hires that within a few years, half of them will be fired.