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February 2nd, 2010 | Occasional Contributors

To accompany our "Slut: The Worst 4-Letter Word?" podcast, we searched "a slut" in our twitter feed to see how people are using the word. As Jessica pointed out in the poll "Do you use the word 'slut'?" urbandictionary.com has 255 definitions for it (actually, a week later as I'm writing this the number appears to have increased to 259). Based on a brief skim of the many (MANY) tweets that include the term--excluding all mention of Miley Cyrus, I might add--here is my short list, in no particular order, of what "slut" means to twitter-users.

December 1st, 2009 | Occasional Contributors

Ever been really nervous about asking someone about their sexual history and STIs, then ended up having a beautiful, completely unawkward conversation? Maybe not. And that's okay. I'd wager that for many of us there are few, if any, ideal moments to bring up contraception and sexually transmitted infections (STIs, more commonly known as STDs), but that doesn't mean it doesn't have to be done. Furthermore, no matter how sweet, open, and honest your partner is, you should never assume that s/he will volunteer information about sexual history or STIs, even if there's something you should know about.

September 22nd, 2009 | Occasional Contributors

We were pleasantly surprised to see the trending topic #whateverhappenedto come up in our "Condoms" twitter feed today ("pleasantly" because we're glad people are discussing birth control--the bad news, I guess, is that the topic is people not using it!). Anyway, I couldn't resist choosing a few favorites to highlight for posterity. Here are my top 11 #whateverhappenedto condoms tweets (with commentary), in no particular order:

September 3rd, 2009 | Occasional Contributors

If you've explored SexReally, you may have noticed our shifting "_______ On Twitter" feed (if not, scroll down now), which displays real-time tweets about topics we want to hear about. This week and last, we've been talking break ups on the site, and we've seen some interesting tweets on the subject... Here are SexReally's top 8 twittered reasons to "break up with" someone:

July 22nd, 2009 | Occasional Contributors

In honor of the recent flurry of discussion about a pamphlet about sexual pleasure being used for sex ed in the UK, a few words on masturbation. To borrow an excerpt from my post on the topic for Pregnant Pause, "many public health experts agree that masturbation is healthy and natural, though that perspective is not always presented in adolescent sex ed programs.

July 15th, 2009 | Occasional Contributors

Research shows that a growing number of Americans view cohabitation as an alternative to marriage. And if you're in your twenties, you probably don't need a study to tell you that cohabiting unions have become the most prevalent type of relationship among twenty-somethings. Naturally, this has led sociologists and cultural commentators to wonder whether cohabiting has come to serve as a stage before marriage, or even as a substitute.

July 2nd, 2009 | Occasional Contributors

What Characterizes a Nice Guy?

Many have tried, at least half-heartedly, to answer this question. Is a nice guy a gentleman who holds the door and piles on the compliments, the best friend who listens to stories of a woman’s “jerk” boyfriend in silence while wondering what color her panties are (click the link and scroll down), or a guy who wants a long-term relationship?